Relationships
Why you keep having the same argument
Most couples don't fight about many things. They fight about one thing, over and over, in different outfits. Here's how to find yours and finally end it.
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Marriage
When your marriage feels like you're roommates
Nobody decides to drift apart. It happens one skipped conversation at a time. Three small changes that bring the closeness back.
Self-worth
People-pleasing is not kindness
Saying yes to everyone means saying no to yourself. How to set a boundary without guilt, and why the right people will respect it.
Marriage
The money talk every couple avoids
Money fights are rarely about money. They're about safety, freedom and respect. A simple way to get on the same page.
Healing
Healing after a breakup you didn't see coming
The first thirty days after a breakup decide a lot. What to do, what to stop doing, and how to come out of it knowing yourself better.
Communication
How to say what you need without starting a fight
Your partner can't read your mind, and hints don't count. A three-sentence formula for asking for what you need.
The books
Take the conversation further.
The episodes start the conversation. The books give you the steps, scripts and worksheets to keep it going at home.
Real Talk MattersLove Without the GuessworkThe relationship playbookRelationships · Ebook
Relationships · 140 pages
Love Without the Guesswork
The relationship playbook
Why you keep ending up in the same argument, how to say what you need without starting a fight, and the small daily habits that keep two people close.
- The 3 conversations every couple avoids, and scripts for each
- How to spot a pattern before it turns into a breakup
- A 30-day reconnection plan you can start tonight
- Worksheets to fill in together
Real Talk MattersStill Choosing YouA field guide to a marriage that lastsMarriage · Ebook
Marriage · 160 pages
Still Choosing You
A field guide to a marriage that lasts
For couples who love each other but feel more like roommates. Money, intimacy, in-laws and the mental load, handled with honesty instead of resentment.
- The weekly 20-minute check-in that prevents big blowups
- How to talk about money without a fight
- Getting intimacy back after kids, stress or distance
- Repair scripts for after an argument
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